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On the beauty of sadness: it’s okay to say, I am sad, thank you
We live in times when our culture is obsessed with happiness. The value of almost every aspect of our lives is increasingly judged in terms of their contribution to our happiness. Happiness has become the ultimate goal by which values and priorities are constructed and the only thing for which any a...
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Acceso en línea: | https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC10184602/ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/37197171 http://dx.doi.org/10.1080/19420889.2023.2211424 |
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author | Tobore, Tobore Onojighofia |
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description | We live in times when our culture is obsessed with happiness. The value of almost every aspect of our lives is increasingly judged in terms of their contribution to our happiness. Happiness has become the ultimate goal by which values and priorities are constructed and the only thing for which any action in pursuit of does not require justification. In contrast, sadness is increasingly abnormalized and pathologized. In this paper, an effort is made to counteract the narrative that sadness, a critical aspect of human life is abnormal or a pathological condition. The evolutionary benefits of sadness and its place in human flourishing are discussed. A rebranding of sadness is proposed that emphasizes the free expression of sadness in everyday greetings to remove it from its current negative state and promote many of its benefits including post-traumatic growth and resilience. |
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spelling | pubmed-101846022023-05-16 On the beauty of sadness: it’s okay to say, I am sad, thank you Tobore, Tobore Onojighofia Commun Integr Biol Review We live in times when our culture is obsessed with happiness. The value of almost every aspect of our lives is increasingly judged in terms of their contribution to our happiness. Happiness has become the ultimate goal by which values and priorities are constructed and the only thing for which any action in pursuit of does not require justification. In contrast, sadness is increasingly abnormalized and pathologized. In this paper, an effort is made to counteract the narrative that sadness, a critical aspect of human life is abnormal or a pathological condition. The evolutionary benefits of sadness and its place in human flourishing are discussed. A rebranding of sadness is proposed that emphasizes the free expression of sadness in everyday greetings to remove it from its current negative state and promote many of its benefits including post-traumatic growth and resilience. Taylor & Francis 2023-05-12 /pmc/articles/PMC10184602/ /pubmed/37197171 http://dx.doi.org/10.1080/19420889.2023.2211424 Text en © 2023 The Author(s). Published by Informa UK Limited, trading as Taylor & Francis Group. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/This is an Open Access article distributed under the terms of the Creative Commons Attribution License (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/ (https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/) ), which permits unrestricted use, distribution, and reproduction in any medium, provided the original work is properly cited. The terms on which this article has been published allow the posting of the Accepted Manuscript in a repository by the author(s) or with their consent. |
spellingShingle | Review Tobore, Tobore Onojighofia On the beauty of sadness: it’s okay to say, I am sad, thank you |
title | On the beauty of sadness: it’s okay to say, I am sad, thank you |
title_full | On the beauty of sadness: it’s okay to say, I am sad, thank you |
title_fullStr | On the beauty of sadness: it’s okay to say, I am sad, thank you |
title_full_unstemmed | On the beauty of sadness: it’s okay to say, I am sad, thank you |
title_short | On the beauty of sadness: it’s okay to say, I am sad, thank you |
title_sort | on the beauty of sadness: it’s okay to say, i am sad, thank you |
topic | Review |
url | https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC10184602/ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/37197171 http://dx.doi.org/10.1080/19420889.2023.2211424 |
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