A dreaded delight: A longitudinal qualitative interview study of paternal childbirth fear during the transition to fatherhood

INTRODUCTION: Childbirth is a life-changing event where fathers desire being involved. As fathers take a more active role, fear of childbirth can arise. The aim of this study was to explore fathers’ experiences of childbirth fear during pregnancy and after the birth of their baby. METHODS: This was a qualitative longitudinal prospective study that included 14 interviews with seven fathers, one during the prenatal period, and one follow-up interview after childbirth. Data were analyzed using thematic analysis according to Braun and Clark. RESULTS: The main theme ‘Being vulnerable during the transition to fatherhood’ was based on the perception of childbirth as risky with threats toward the woman’s and baby’s health, not being able to give and receive enough support, unable to handle the unknown process of birth, and not being a good father. Helpful strategies for coping with fear were to talk about fear, to learn more about childbirth and techniques on how to handle fear, and to avoid dealing with fear. Fathers’ fear of childbirth changed after the birth of their baby. Their thoughts of another childbirth did not evoke the same strong feelings of fear. Issues important for the reduction of childbirth fear were: receiving professional support, actively taking part in the childbirth process, and the partner having an uncomplicated birth. CONCLUSIONS: Fathers with childbirth fear regarded childbirth as risky, but they expressed helpful coping strategies. After the birth of their baby, they became less fearful. Quality of fear-reducing support to expectant fathers may influence how they cope with their transition into fatherhood.