Pathways to fatherhood: evaluating the priorities of self-identified gay and bisexual men pursuing family building options

OBJECTIVE: To assess the priorities and decisions of gay and bisexual men pursuing fatherhood. DESIGN: Cross-sectional study. SETTING: Internet-based survey. PATIENT(S): Gay and bisexual men who were interested in pursuing or had previously pursued family building options. INTERVENTION(S): None. MAIN OUTCOME MEASURE(S): This study aimed to assess the attitudes of respondents regarding the following: mode of achieving parenthood and the relative importance of a genetic link to offspring; the relative importance of factors considered when selecting an oocyte donor (OD); and the relative importance of factors associated with selecting a gestational carrier (GC). Access to care and financial considerations were also analyzed. RESULT(S): Of the 110 respondents, most (68.2%) desired parenthood via an OD and GC. This was consistent with 53.2% of respondents reporting that a genetic link to a child was “extremely important” or “important.” Most couples (86.6%) desired to use sperm from both partners. In addition, 40.5% of respondents reported that a twin gestation would be the most ideal pregnancy outcome. Medical history was considered the most important factor when selecting an OD (83.5%), whereas pregnancy history was considered the most important selection criterion for a GC (86.2%). Furthermore, 89.1% of respondents reported that the fertility services they desired were available to them, although 33.0% reported they would have to travel to another state for care. CONCLUSION(S): Understanding the circumstances of gay and bisexual men pursuing fatherhood allows for individualized care. Since several respondents desired twin pregnancies, it is important to counsel patients regarding the risks of multiple gestation and determine the motivations for this preference.